Brutally honest, controversial and funny are some good ways to describe Jared Oliver’s book, Men Ain’t Sh@$. Jared Oliver is a motivational speaker, teacher and life coach. He practices Holistic Medicine and is a self-described Metaphysician. Inspired by women and their relationship experiences with men, he wrote this 58 page mini-book intending to unpack why men may behave the way they do, and the common archetypes of men that exist. It may be lighthearted and casual, but Jared’s ultimate goal is aimed at helping women of all ages and backgrounds gain insight about the men in their lives. So, we’ve asked Jared some questions about himself and his work!
Please describe your book.
The book is inspirational, funny, controversial, informative and an overall great short read. This book provides the reader several characters that are described thoroughly to support the controversial title. Each character will summarize a series of behaviors and provide insight into the stereotype.
What inspired you to write this book?
I was inspired to write this book after spending time with female colleagues who discussed their experiences with relationships and overall interaction with men. After listening, I was inspired to write based on a males point of view of the characterizations described.
How do you make sure the information for your nonfiction books is accurate and up to date?
My information is based on a point of view. This book means to inspire dialog and conversation.
What does literary success look like to you?
Literary success looks like community to me. Creating a community that will continue to continue to read my future literature as well.
Do you outline your books beforehand? Why or why not?
Yes! I use the outline as a guide to remain consistent within the order of storytelling.
What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned while writing?
I have learned how to tell my story in a short precise manner.
How do you make non-fiction interesting and engaging while still being informative?
The story has to resonate with the reader so they can identify and gather information that hopefully helps, inspires or simple make them think.
What is your favorite part of writing?
The creative part of outlining the character and building out the story.
What do you find enjoyable or difficult about non-fiction?
I find enjoyable the collection of thoughts and the art of story-telling.
Was this topic suggested or was it something you were already interested in?
I already felt interested in it. Others suggested to move forward and write it.
What other types of research did you need to do for this book?
Interviewed 25 women to gain insight and thought regarding the subject content.
Who will this book appeal to? What age range would you recommend it for?
This book will appeal to women (African American, Latin, etc.) The age range 30 to 45.
What is your next project?
The next project is The Sexual Church
Talk a little bit about yourself. What is your background? What is something surprising to learn about you?
My background is bi-racial. Human Resources Executive for Fortune 100 and 500 companies. Own a cigar brand and company named Sip and Smoke, LLC.
Do you have a favorite book–fiction or non-fiction? How about one of your own?
I am an avid reader, to say I have a favorite would be an injustice. Okay, maybe one: Becoming Supernatural – Joe Dispenza
Do you have an author website or other platform where readers can find more information about you and your books?
Yes my website, also social media sites Instagram and Facebook @houseofshaman
Where can our readers learn more about you and your book/s?
My book is currently available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.
